Over the last few months we have all made immense sacrifices , suffered untold loss, fear and uncertainty. We are all experiencing emotions good and bad like never before. This should bring us together to talk and cooperate to find solutions and comfort that work for us all , as diverse as we are. Yet we do not. Is it easier to hold onto past grievances, be critical, stay silent than do the right thing to make a difference? Maybe now is the time to change old habits and move into a space that is difficult and harder but right, and to admit to ourselves we could be wrong and now is the time to do what is right and have the difficult conversations.